☆♥~Happy Birthday Little Princess~♥☆

Happy Birthday Robyn

today you turn 3♥ ♥ ♥

we had a friend stop around for a little while bearing gifts for Robyn (her God Daughter) Robyn has 2 godmothers and 1 godfather but the rest live in Adelaide so have not seen us much Jon did come up in August though :)...

we also had gifts arrive all week for her ( grandparents and Aunty Cheryl ) plus the couple we have here too

I have a great night out with some friends  OMG its been ages since I went out and danced etc felt like a teen but drank water and lemonade so was a good girl. also I drove so was good to have the extra can with us to help do the drop offs on way home )... Thanks Girls for a lovley evening out and I got home to a quiet house with both girls sleeping through with no wake-ups til after 7am :)  (Happy Birthday Robyn ♥♥♥ Mummy Loves you)

this is Alex in her uniform  we are all ready for school next week  (well she is I am not :-/ )

☆weekend and Happiness☆

well friday is here and this weekend it the Australia day weekend so it is special to us especially as Hubby is in the defence, and we are proud Aussies ♥

Wednesday Robyn had Child care again she loves going and next week will be my first me day OMG what will I do with myself I have never had a day to me since having the girls (I will miss them both :( sad I know but I love them so much lol♥) so Alex and myself got stuck into cleaning the house I used space bags to put all the stuffed toys away and now they take up 1/4 of the space hehe saves me throwing them away but I was nice and left some out, think I need to get some toy tubs to do a change of toys every week or so so the girls only have some out at a time???

Thursday Alex's school books arrived  so now have to cover them hehe what fun lol also we finalized all Alex's school things fee's etc as we went private with her was kicking the budget but am happy with my choice of schools. got uniforms and so forth we have books to cover soon too argh but will be nice she will love school, will take a photo next week of her dressed in her uniform too ♥

Friday (today ) not much happened during the day but  tonight I am going out with some friends on a girls night we all needed a good time away from the every day and this is it :)  we are having dinner and drinks ( non alcoholic for me as I am driving there and not a big drinker anyway lol) but will be good to get away from the normal mum etc lol.. Hubby is great and is feeding the girls and watching them til I get home??? not sure how long I will be out for though hehe

Saturday is Miss Robyn's 3rd Birthday  "Happy Birthday Little Princess♥"

was suppose to have a few people come but long weekend etc everyone had plans so will be a fun family day :) I got her a icecream freddo cake (green lol) and will be doing the photography mum thing lol

Childhood Cancer Event Sponsorship "Tour Down Under"

Hi again well I have a friend that's dad is doing the tour down under this week and would like sponsors so if you can help this great cause  please follow link then scroll down to "Ken Hughes" so many children suffer cancer and even the smallest thing can help search for a cure ♥

childhood cancer event

also we got a call today to say we are penciled in for early May for Alex's Make-A-Wish so it will be around hubbies birthday the same time Alex was to have her surgery last year but was ill so had a week delay  but we will have a happier year with lots of wonderful memories to look back on too, this year is really starting to look bright for us  and I dont want to jinx us or rub it in to others but just wanted to share our happiness  ♥♥

Ending's And Beginning's

Just after the fall on friday

well I have had to stand tall and make some hard decisions and the hardest was to cut all ties with my sister, the negativity that she spreads is hard to live with and we do not need that in our lives plus the use of my daughters to get to me will end now. I have made this choice as I am not her parent and I owe her Nothing she had so much when I had nothing I still got through it all but she thinks she helped me, with what charging 3 times the amount for fuel to drive me some where I always paid straight away but still owe... for me giving her discounted fairs in the taxi ( only covering the owners share not getting anything for me and being at her beck and call when she wanted me but disowning myself and dad til she lost everything, I know she drinks but she tells the world that I do not drink any more then in the same breath will say I have not eaten today but had a can of Jim beam, I wish her all the best in life but she will not destroy mine anymore she is one person on one income and earns more than we do... we are 4 living on one income and need the rent , car, health insurance that has to be paid.

I am HAPPY and love my little family and I do not care who is jealous of that fact as we make our own lives and "not others", we chose the road we take "Not Others", we must live with our decisions "Not Others", if we want more we work for it not throw blame as that only causes more issues as we are not dealing with the real reason we are not happy...

we are a family of 4 on 1 income, and we do well with what we have. we are going to have family fun times over the next year as now is our time, last year was hell and we need to recover, this year will be special with whatever is thrown at us :)  ♥♥♥

♥above are some photos of the girls I took  am doing a photo a day challenge to try improve my photography  slowly getting better♥